We are continuing our journey, getting closer to California and further from the east coast every day. We spent some time in Boston Heights, Ohio this morning, did a little nature walk with the dog; it was good for all three of us. We went to Brandywine Water Falls in the Cuyahoga Valley National Park...very pretty and peaceful.



We adjusted our route today, we headed more southerly, leaving I-80, taking I-71 south and getting on I-70 west. I was driving from our start time until about 5pm today. I have been doing much of the driving last few days, but Patrick (my son) asked to take wheel back and I became passenger for the remainder of today. It took away my task and left me with time to ponder, look at maps and pet dog from time to time. As we approached Indianapolis, I began to think about the only other time I was on that road. It was about 10 months ago with Karen at my side. We were headed for treatment (a new protocol for her throat cancer) and it was to be the beginning of a very difficult last 5 months in Karen's life. I felt very sad as I reflected on that journey and how hard it was for Karen to endure those times. She was very brave and chased after all her chances for survival with great zeal. As I thought, I cried and just sat as my son was playing some Raggae music which is also music that Karen would have loved.
Parallel worlds but criss crossing just the same; he listening to his music and I experiencing my sadness but his music influencing me and he also taking notice of my sadness and acknowledging it.
These thoughts today as the other unsuspecting thoughts I have described over the last few days have sort of surprised me; these were not things I had thought of or planned to even think about as I traveled across the country. Once again I am shown to embrace life, the whole entire ball of wax...it is a beautiful journey; there is so much more than just the goal or goals we strive for...there is one "hell of a ride" to be had!!!

Tomorrow, or actually today at this late hour, it is my birthday. I am glad to be spending it on the road with my son. This is really a very special time for me to experience with him; my birthday is secondary in my mind to what is happening over all here. Not sure what we will do to celebrate, maybe get some rich dessert somewhere and P
I close or today and wish you all peace, love and harmony on your life paths....
Patrick J. "the old(er) one"
Seems like all is going according to 'the plan' which is always great but sometimes painful with points of emotional growth at the ready. I will say I am glad to be sitting here reading the blog from afar rather than sharing the small space of the car with all you smelly folks...well maybe just Bosley...as sweet as he is!
ReplyDeleteGlad you are having a nice, contemplative journey. Your writing always makes for an interesting read.
Happy Birthday Dad! Hope you have a good one.
Your posting about Karen made me very sad. There has been quite a bit of loss in the past months. The grief seems to just come out in bits and pieces whenever it needs to. I still can't believe all that transpired with Karen and watching what she went through and all the amazing strength she had....it breaks my heart even more.
I am also reacting with emotions for Patrick S. So proud of what he has set out to do in his life.....he has already accomplished so much and doors are opening all over the place for all of us as a result of his determination and passion.
Love you both and talk soon I'm sure. Love Kara
HAPPY BIRTHDAY POPPA! Seems like a nice way to spend a birthday...on a scenic roadtrip with your favorite child. It seems you two are making nice progress while enjoying the sites. Miss you both. Be safe and Feel Good. I wish you find some chocolate covered almonds to celebrate your big day! Love Dee
ReplyDeleteHappy B-day Brudda. We will be honoring your birthday with a cake today. We'll sing loud so listen carefully.
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Happy B-Day Brudda. We will be singing happy B-Day tonight at 8:00 PM in honor of your B-day. We Love U both.
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So glad I have gotten to know you, I have been grateful to follow your journey, for me it lends courage and hope in my own path.
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OK Paddy's we celebrated your birthday last night at OB3. We simultaneously called you and Daved singing our best happy B-day leaving musically soothing voice mails on both of your phones. Lovely, is was absolutely Lovely. I am trying to post a picture of Charles, Eileen, Maura, Brandon, Siobhan, Ileana, and I all gathered around the cake. Not sure how to do that.
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